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Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 13th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – close eyes briefly

Managing my internal revolution

The storming of the Bastille in Paris on this day in
1789 marked the start of a decade of bloody
revolution which led to the rise of Napoleon
Bonaparte – perhaps France’s most glorious era.. It’s
tempting to use the event as a metaphor for all kinds
of situations where great gain comes out of great
pain. Addicted people make their own drama and
we all need a revolution to depose our internal
‘ancien regime’ of sloth, dishonesty and hypocrisy.
No need to say more. Can I embrace my recovery in
the spirit of sobriety, liberty and fraternity?

I must accept the world as it is. Life is difficult and I
must take care not to make it any worse. People only
behave violently, as they did in the French
Revolution, when they have nothing to lose. But I on
the other hand must behave well, because I have
everything to lose – my new life in sobriety with all
that it has given me: new interests and peace of
mind, new friends and old friends rediscovered, and
most of all, my Higher Power. Today I give thanks
to God for taking me through moments of great
upheaval and pain into a state of peace of mind.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 13th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – breathe slowly


Keep it simple


Thinking, feeling, perception and intuition are the
four functions of the ego, according to renowned
psychiatrist Carl Jung. Employing these, we
interpret and respond to reality. That works best
when we have rid ourselves of the burdens of the
past and the future and simply focus on today. We
distort our grasp of reality by our opinions, our
needs or our expectations. We must keep it simple,
then we can progress our personal development.
Do I appreciate that I must build my life on a
foundation of reality?


When you lack understanding and you
are unable to control your mind, your
senses do not obey you, just as unruly
horses do not obey a charioteer.
Hindu, Upanishads.
Total control of my mind will probably never
happen, but I must remember that my thoughts,
feelings and actions are all connected. If I focus on
these and do not let my opinions and expectations
get in the way, then I will be able to make the right
choices. I will use meditation and mindfulness to
help clarify my thoughts.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 11th by Chris B

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Understanding the obsession of addiction

JRR Tolkien’s The Lord of the Rings has been cited
as a metaphor for addiction. The Ring works its
magic on all who seek it, rendering some
hopelessly obsessed. The effect on its custodian
Gollum is reminiscent of drugs such as heroin.
Gollum is entirely consumed by his attachment to
the Ring. Nothing is as important and his mental
and moral standards deteriorate. Interestingly, the
power of the Ring to corrupt Gollum was not equal
to ensnaring ‘good’ characters like Gandalf and
Frodo. They seem to have won through largely
because of the support and strength, they found in
each other’s company – a bit like AA. There is no
evidence that Tolkien had drugs in mind. Am I ready
to learn lessons of recovery from many sources?

I must never forget the corrupting power of alcohol
and drugs. Regular drug use can impair the ability
to choose right from wrong. Empathy is also found
at reduced levels in drug users. I will remember that
a small drink of alcohol does no harm to some
people, but it contains the potential to change me
from Gandalf into Gollum.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 10th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – relax your whole body gradually


Dangerous relapse situations

Talk of having a ‘slip’ can minimise its seriousness.
We can all get thoughts about drinking. Our
addiction keeps trying to stage a comeback. The
crucial moment is when the thought first appears.
We must be quick to root it out and not entertain
it because once we start dreaming about drinking
or using, we are unconsciously grooming ourselves
to embrace the notion. A cool glass of beer on a hot
day can be a delightful thought as we struggle down
a crowded city street but where would it lead us?

It is vital that we banish such thoughts immediately and
have a prearranged plan for doing so – a person to call
or a task to change our mindset. Do I have a plan to
deal with ideas of drinking and using?
As soon as I start to think that I am in control of my
life, that even subconsciously, I have no real need
for my Higher Power, then I am in danger. I must
carry out a reality check – back to basics: I am
addicted, probably no human power could have
relieved my addiction, but my Higher Power has
helped me do so, when asked. How can I think, when
I look at the past, that I can succeed on my own?

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 9th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – sit comfortably


The child within

Childhood can be tough. Traumatic events leave
emotional scars as well as physical ones. The absence
of love causes lasting psychological pain. A damaged
child learns to be wary of attachments because:

  • Love is conditional (manipulation)
  • Love makes you weak and vulnerable
  • Love must be searched for and can be lost
  • Love hurts but emotions need to be hidden.
    Many of us have had bad childhood experiences
    that still affect us. The way they have influenced
    our attitudes to life may be small – or large: Don’t
    do that, you’re not clever enough to try or don’t say
    what you really think – it’ll get you into
    trouble. Addiction is often rooted in attachment
    problems. Do I recognise the suffering of
    my inner child and see there is more work to do?

  • Past suffering remains a measure of who we are, a
    characteristic of our inner child. To comfort this
    child, we must understand suffering, because some
    good may come of it in the end. This can seem
    contradictory but is often a theme of religious
    teaching. Today, I will treat others with kindness.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 8th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – enjoy the moment


Openness to new ideas

Opium is mentioned in Homer’s Odyssey, in
Vergil’s Aeneid, by Chaucer and by Shakespeare.
Many poets and other artists have been addicted.
The Club des Hashischins in nineteenth century
Paris embraced almost every literary figure of the
time: Victor Hugo, Zola, Dumas, Baudelaire and
Gautier were all members. Drugs and creativity
seem to go hand in hand. They must have been in
the mind of the great philosopher Friedrich
Nietzsche when he wrote: We all need some chaos in
our lives, to give birth to a dancing star. It was only
relatively recently however, that people began
using creativity in recovery from addiction.
Painting and poetry can help self-discovery,
expressing feelings and confidence. They can be a
new interest too. Am I open to ideas of creativity?

An interest in art, philosophy or literature feeds into
our imagination and helps find answers that we
could not obtain from the scientific or pragmatic
world. It also helps us to keep an open mind.
Discovering new topics of interest is part of the joy
and excitement of recovery, for which I am grateful.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 7th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – breathe slowly

Positivity

Positivity means looking for the good in people,
expecting good outcomes and being generally
optimistic.. Addiction makes us very negative but
there are ways of becoming positive. Practising
gratitude is recommended because conscious
actions like making a gratitude list, force us out of
our negativity. Another good way of finding
positivity is through mindfulness: and meditations
on such subjects as: He who enjoys doing, is happy.
In Twelve Step recovery, I get the feeling that my life is
improving, with God’s help.

As I grow in the
programme, I am less and less drawn back to my old
addictive behaviour because my new life is so
enjoyable. The thought of spoiling what I now have
seems absurd. Character defects keep trying to
come back into my life – envy, judging others,
complacency. I must remain vigilant, but my
positivity motivates me to want to keep what I have.
Today I am thankful for all the benefits of sobriety
and for the positivity that it brings.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 6th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – feel your body from top to toes

Power of example


Everything we say and write comes in one of four forms:
statement, question, exclamation or command. The
Twelve Steps are written in the form of a statement:
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a
programme of recovery. Before the AA Big Book was
published, in 1939, the authors were advised to make
the tone of the work less directive: a lot of ‘musts’ were
replaced by ‘should’ or ‘we suggest’. Remarkably, the
approach worked. Perhaps alcoholics are people who
don’t like being told what to do. If you compare the
Twelve Steps of AA to the Ten Commandments in the
Christian Bible, you will see a marked difference in
tone.


Reading the AA Big Book widens our knowledge of
Alcoholics Anonymous and of addiction itself.
There is something very moving about reading the
lives and experiences of people just like us who
struggled with addiction nearly a hundred years
ago. Their problem was mine and all of their stories
are truly inspirational. I am proud and grateful to
follow in their footsteps. I will try to be open to the
possibilities of change so that with humility and
love I too can be an example to others.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 5th by Chris B

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Help to change

Honesty, openness and willingness to change are
three essentials of successful recovery. Openness is
important because it allows us to accept new ideas.
These can take many forms but one of the most
surprising for some people is the idea of a Higher
Power. Yet, anyone looking back at our past and the
change that has happened since, might conclude
that they see something pretty miraculous. How do
people who have been written off as hopelessly
addicted manage to turn their lives around? Since
we were unable to help ourselves at that time, some
other powerful force must have appeared.


A miracle is an extraordinary event that is not
explicable by natural or scientific laws. Life itself is
one – nobody has been able to explain scientifically
how it first happened. I am not being asked to believe
in a specific source of power in the universe. I am
simply asked to open my mind to the idea that
there is a power of some kind that is greater than
me and which helps me if asked. I can feel that
power in the experience, strength and support of
other people. May it always be there for us all, so
that what I see darkly, I will see face to face one day.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days July 4th by Chris B

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Enjoy the simple things in life


Happiness and good self-esteem are legitimate
goals in life and recovery gives us a second chance.
In that sense, we are truly fortunate. Life may be
difficult, but recovery should most certainly be
enjoyable, otherwise – what is the point? Our goal
should be to become ‘Better than Well’. If we keep
things simple and just try to do the right thing, we
will reach our goal in the end. Poet William Blake
wrote about the simple things of creation and the
need to know right from wrong:
To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower,
Hold Infinity in the Palm of your Hand
And Eternity in an Hour.
William Blake.


There is a choice in life between the material and
the spiritual – between wealth, pride and status on
the one hand and honesty, love and service on the
other. Which will be the dominant principle in my
life? It is difficult to try to achieve both. Wealth and
status are not necessarily evil, but I need to choose
whatever brings peace of mind and happiness.