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Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 18th by Chris B

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Pride


When Alexander the Great visited the Delphic
Oracle in 336 BC, he hoped to be told that he would
conquer the world. Instead, he received the
equivocal message that he would be ‘invincible’.
This turned out to be true because despite military
success, he was unable to conquer himself and died
aged only thirty-two. The suspected cause of
death was alcohol poisoning. The Oracle might
have added two other bits of jargon they
commonly used: ‘Know thyself’ and ‘Nothing
in excess.’ Alexander was one in a long line of very
gifted men and women whose lives were blighted
by their inability to overcome addiction.
Do I understand the need to make recovery
my priority above everything else?


I must build my life round my recovery When
things go well, our ego makes us minimise the
dangers of relapse. Victorious Roman generals
returning in triumph from war had to be
accompanied by a slave who whispered ‘memento
mori’ (remember you are mortal). The Twelve Steps
give us the same message. We ignore it at our
peril. Today I ask to remember that pride can
cause relapse.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 17th by Chris B

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Kindness

Kindness and compassion are important factors for
people with addiction problems. The word
‘kindness’ originates from the old English word
‘kin’ for ‘family’ and ‘connection’. Showing
kindness to another is sharing their trouble and
pain, as we would do in any relationship we care
about. Kindness is consideration and respect, not
only to others but to ourselves. Am I ready today to
show kindness to anyone that I see in need?

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
The Dalai Lama.
Kindness is what binds a healthy society together. It
should never be given selectively; it should be
shared amongst everyone. I cannot expect to receive
kindness from strangers if I am not prepared to
show kindness myself. When I work the Steps and
have some experience of sober living, it is then my
responsibility to extend the hand of friendship and
kindness to others. That is what is meant by Step
Twelve. Today I ask to be ready to extend the hand
of friendship and kindness to anyone in need.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 15th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – send positive thoughts

Better than well

One way of getting ‘better than well’ is simply to do your best in everything you try. Then,you will go to sleep each night with peace of mind. Whatever your view creation and your place in the world, it seems implausible that we are here just to sit around in a half-hearted way. You may or may not expect a day of divine judgement to come, but for the sake of your own self-respect it is surely better to try your best in all your daily tasks. By doing so, you give yourself the opportunity to get the most out of everything – your health, intellect, spiritual life, relationships and work. ‘The more you put in, the more you get out’ is one of those self-evident truths that should immediately spur us into action. Am I ready to do my best in all my affairs?


Other well-tried ways of becoming ‘better than well’ include connecting, exercising, learning, getting involved and giving. All can be found in a Twelve Step programme. Today I ask to do my best in all things.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 14th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – review expectations


Behavioural addiction

Gambling, gaming, shopping, pornography and
workaholism are examples of behavioural addictions
that are on the increase. A few years ago, these
activities would have been mostly performed in
public. Today, thanks to the home computer and the
mobile phone they are largely unobserved, mostly
happening ‘behind lace curtains’. There is a danger
for people in recovery that one addiction can replace
another or lead a person back to their original
addiction because activities are linked.
Gambling and drinking is one example of this. Am
I aware of the dangers of cross addiction
and the need to stop all addictive behaviour?

Addiction never gives up. Complacency leads to
disaster. The alcoholic who thinks that an
occasional joint won’t matter, or a gambler who
sees no problem with a few drinks, are both
playing with fire. I cannot fully embrace a new life
of sobriety if I am still experiencing the
escapism of even a small amount of addictive
behaviour. Today I give thanks for my sobriety
but remind myself of the dangers in any kind of
addictive behaviour.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 13th by Chris B

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Listening

If we really listen, we inform ourselves. Too often,
we rely on assumptions instead. The trouble with
that is that we then believe they are the truth. Soon
we have created a whole mountain of problems for
ourselves. If we had simply listened and asked
questions, we could have avoided most of the
problems. We make assumptions usually because
we are too afraid or too lazy to ask questions.
Choosing the softer, easier way can become a habit.
Am I willing to stop making assumptions and to ask
questions instead?

When I ask questions, I receive answers that
increase my understanding, and I may also help
others learn at the same time. That doesn’t happen
when I make assumptions instead. If my goal is
spiritual growth, then questions will help me to
achieve this a lot quicker than assumptions. Today,
I ask God for the wisdom

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 12th by Chris B

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Humour

American writer Kurt Vonnegut said that we should
stop being so serious: Jokes help a lot. And get a
dog, if you don’t already have one. Vonnegut
certainly knew a thing or two about recovery from
difficult situations – he survived the Dresden firebombing
during WWII because he was locked up
as a prisoner inside an insulated slaughterhouse. As
a professed ‘Christ-loving atheist’, his view of life
was to help each other as much as possible. Can I
keep an open mind and not take myself too
seriously?

There is not much to laugh about in the aftermath of
addiction, but in our grimmest moments we
sometimes turn to dark comedy, because horror and
humour are often two sides of the same coin. It is a
bizarre experience to recount one’s appalling secrets
to AA members who react with a nod of empathy
instead of a shriek of dismay. But how else should
we react to life’s great challenges? Absurdist
philosopher Albert Camus’ response was said to be:
Should I kill myself or have a cup of coffee? I’ll settle
for the coffee. Today I will take recovery seriously,
but not overlook humour.

Daily reading from Recovery Days June 10th by Chris B

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Step Six

Step Six is part of removing what doesn’t work for
us, to make room for new attitudes and ideas. It
follows on from Steps Four and Five where we
identify the defects we need to get rid of. It may all
sound quite neat but in reality, we are often reluctant
to remove bad habits. The softer, easier way may not
have worked but ‘softer and easier’ was a comfort
zone – it was a coping mechanism, albeit a
maladaptive one. We turn to our Higher Power at
this important moment because there must be no
compromises and we need guidance. Am I entirely
ready to go through with Step Six?

The French writer and critic Charles du Bos said:
The important thing is this: to be able, at any
moment, to sacrifice what we are for what we could
become. His use of the word ‘sacrifice’ is important
here, because it recognises how difficult it can be to
give up our old ways. To use another phrase that du
Bos would have recognised, ‘nostalgie de la
boue’ (the attraction of degradation) is hard to
remove. It is a process that may take time, but it will
be time well spent – another new experience for
some of us. Today I ask God for guidance as I work
to remove all my shortcomings.

Daily reading from Recovery Days June 11th by Chris B

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Head to heart

Addiction professionals talk about the eighteen-inch
journey, from head to heart. What we think and what
we feel can be very different but the more the two
can be connected, the more we will be in balance.
Some of us know from personal experience that
intellectual understanding of an event and its
consequences is often not sufficient to convince us
to do otherwise. That is true of addiction. Because
our emotions are so powerful, it takes more than
logical argument to persuade us to do what we are
too afraid, too arrogant or too ashamed to attempt.
Will I make the eighteen-inch journey?

When the great seventeenth century thinker Blaise
Pascal said: The heart has its reasons, which reason
knows nothing of, he meant that the heart can
sometimes stop us doing what seems intellectually,
right or equally, do things that seem logically
wrong. Today I ask for the wisdom to make the
eighteen-inch journey in order to keep my head and
my heart in balance.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 9th by Chris B

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Fake it to make it

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Despite being anonymous, they all seemed
to understand and like each other very well.
That was my first impression of an AA
meeting. So, I kept going to meetings
because, I knew I had to. There were no
other options. Sometimes I was glad to go,
sometimes I pretended to be glad. An oldtimer
said: ‘fake it to make it’. Perhaps I
was doing that. In any case, a miracle was
happening because I was not drinking. I
thought that I had better keep on doing
the same thing, because it worked. I still
regularly go to that meeting. It has saved
my life. Anon.
Am I committed to attending meetings because I
know that I cannot be complacent about my
disease of addiction?


I do not need to understand the reasons why
something works before I do it. Just the fact that it
does work should be enough. I will apply the same
principle to the Twelve Step fellowships. I am
content to follow them and keep it simple. Today I
give thanks for the simple gifts that I have received.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 8th by Chris B

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Enough


So many of our problems are caused by wanting.
Part of this comes from our raised expectations. In
the West, capitalism is based on the idea of
consumerism and economic growth. Many of us
have far more than we need. It is hard in such a
climate to simply make do with enough, and
altruism often does not seem strong enough in the
face of glossy advertisements and celebrity-led
videos. Elsewhere in the world, people struggle to
put food on the table, if they have a table at all.
Twelve Steps are partly an example of unselfish
living. Do I remember that by following their
principles I may be seen as an example to others?

Two men were talking at a conference. One said:
Tom, how does it make you feel to know that
man over there made more money today than
you will make in all your life? Tom said: I feel
happy, because I’ve got something he can never
have – the knowledge that I’ve got enough.
Anon.
When you realise that you have all you need,
then you can look at the world in a different way.
Today I give thanks for all that I have and ask
nothing more.