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Daily Reading of Recovery Days June 22nd by Chris B

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Potential for growth

If you found yourself in a wonderful museum or art gallery but you only had time to see inside one room, then you would come away feeling unfulfilled and disappointed. You wish you had been able to explore more of what was in there. Going through life without finding out everything you are capable of, is a similar wasted opportunity. Recovery from addiction gives us time to reassess ourselves. How excited would you be to discover that you can sing, paint or write a book? Am I exploring the full extent of my talents?

I wasted so much of my life in the mad maze of addiction. Do I really want to settle for the well- worn bits of me that I already know? Why not treat my recovery as the previously unnoticed doorway through which I can reach the secret garden that is the undiscovered me? My own self-realisation is good for me and for the world. I only have this life and every moment is precious. What holds me back from starting this exercise of discovery? Today I ask God to help me find all aspects of myself.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 21st by Chris B

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Empathy

A person with a big ego will struggle to find the empathy needed to offer true kindness. Addicted people are sick people, not bad people. They deserve to be treated the same as anyone in need of health care. When the day comes that they ask for help, it is important that they receive a good response. Most people in recovery never forget the welcome and the kindness that they received at their first meeting. The memory remains, because people remember how they felt at times of great stress. Will I show kindness and empathy when I offer help to an addicted person?

The first stages of recovery are a time of great vulnerability. It is a common experience that unites us in fellowship. The kindness and support that we all receive is a precious thing that we must keep alive by passing it on like an Olympic torch. In doing so, we are passing on our power – Higher Power. Today I ask God that I will always pass on what I receive.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 20th by Chris B

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Humility

If you want to learn humility, perhaps you could start by looking at your past behaviour. Reviewing character defects in the cold light of sobriety is a humbling experience. How arrogant were you? Do you see evidence of that deadly combination of huge ego and low self-esteem that so many addicted people have? Step Six is the Step of Humility. If I am truly honest with myself, there will be much that is humbling as I progress through Steps Four to Nine. Humility can be painful, but it is an indication of spiritual progress. Do I feel true humility when I look at my past actions?

There is little to be gained from passively looking backwards, unless we learn from our mistakes. Remember Lot’s wife. True humility opens me to receiving help from my Higher Power because it takes away my ego, the main barrier that stops me asking for help. Today I pray for humility to admit my mistakes honestly and can ask for the help I need, so that change will happen.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 19th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – review expectations

Keep it simple

For many people, the words: I did this – it worked, are more compelling than: Do this – it will work. The Twelve Steps don’t instruct, they merely suggest that we do the things that worked for others. They do not claim that theirs is the only path to sobriety. We tend to question direct orders, whereas the example of another is difficult to deny. The Twelve Steps are known as a simple programme for complicated people. The slogan ‘Keep it Simple’ is not just something to hang on the wall but something we should carry around in our hearts and minds wherever we go. Am I keeping things simple?

It is usually my ego that leads me to question things. Of course, some actions and some statements need to be questioned. Perhaps I should check if I am suitably qualified, before I raise my hand. Do I know better what is good for me, than people with years of sobriety? My track record seems to indicate otherwise. There is sense in the old timers’ advice to take the cotton wool out of my ears and put it in my mouth. I ask God today to give me the common sense to listen to advice instead of questioning.

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Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 18th by Chris B

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Pride

When Alexander the Great visited the Delphic Oracle in 336 BC, he hoped to be told that he would conquer the world. Instead, he received the equivocal message that he would be ‘invincible’. This turned out to be true because despite military success, he was unable to conquer himself and died aged only thirty-two; the suspected cause of death was alcohol poisoning. The Oracle might have added two other bits of jargon they commonly used: ‘Know thyself’ and ‘Nothing in excess.’ Alexander was one in a long line of very gifted men and women whose lives were blighted by their inability to overcome addiction. Do I understand the need to make recovery my priority above everything else?

I must build my life round my recovery. When things go well, our ego makes us minimise the dangers of relapse. Victorious Roman generals returning in triumph from war had to be accompanied by a slave who whispered ‘memento mori’ (remember you are mortal). The Twelve Steps give us the same message. We ignore it at our peril. Today I ask to remember that pride can cause relapse.

Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 17th by Chris B

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Kindness

Kindness and compassion are important factors for people with addiction problems. The word ‘kindness’ originates from the old English word ‘kin’ for ‘family’ and ‘connection’. Showing kindness to another is sharing their trouble and pain, as we would do in any relationship we care about. Kindness is consideration and respect, not only to others but to ourselves. Am I ready today to show kindness to anyone that I see in need?

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. The Dalai Lama.

Kindness is what binds a healthy society together. It should never be given selectively; it should be shared amongst everyone. I cannot expect to receive kindness from strangers if I am not prepared to show kindness myself. When I work the Steps and have some experience of sober living, it is then my responsibility to extend the hand of friendship and kindness to others. That is what is meant by Step Twelve. Today I ask to be ready to extend the hand of friendship and kindness to anyone in need.

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Daily Reading from Recovery Days June16th by Chris B

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JUNE 16             

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Temptation

Book lovers celebrate this day as Bloomsday, in honour of James Joyce’s wonderful book Ulysses which chronicles the ‘voyage’ of Leopold Bloom around Dublin, on this day in 1904. The book is structured like Homer’s Odyssey, written around three thousand years earlier. Homer’s hero, Ulysses encounters challenges and temptations such as the Lotus Eaters and the Sirens, which are sometimes seen as a metaphor for addiction. To avoid the Sirens’ seductive call (which leads to death) Ulysses has himself tied to the mast of his ship so that he cannot respond; his forward thinking allows him to be exposed to temptation but still be kept safe. Have I put measures in place to keep me safe from the Siren call of addiction?

Addicted people, especially in early recovery, are often encouraged to think like Ulysses, which means having a pre-arranged plan for dealing with cravings and events which trigger addictive behaviour. Such a plan might include carrying the phone number of a fellowship member and erasing contact details of dealers. Today I ask to be alert to the Siren call of addiction that may sound any time.

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Daily Reading June15th from Recovery Days by Chris B

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JUNE 15               

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Better than well

One way of getting ‘better than well’ is simply to do your best in everything you try. Then,you will go to sleep each night with peace of mind. Whatever your view creation and your place in the world, it seems implausible that we are here just to sit around in a half-hearted way. You may or may not expect a day of divine judgement to come, but for the sake of your own self-respect it is surely better to try your best in all your daily tasks. By doing so, you give yourself the opportunity to get the most out of everything – your health, intellect, spiritual life, relationships and work. ‘The more you put in, the more you get out’ is one of those self-evident truths that should immediately spur us into action. Am I ready to do my best in all my affairs?

Other well-tried ways of becoming ‘better than well’ include connecting, exercising, learning, getting involved and giving. All can be found in a Twelve Step programme. Today I ask to do my best in all my affairs.

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Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 14th by Chris B

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JUNE 14             Remember Mindfulness – review expectations

Behavioural addiction

Gambling, gaming, shopping, pornography and workaholism are examples of behavioural addictions that are on the increase. A few years ago, these activities would have been mostly performed in public. Today, thanks to the home computer and the mobile phone they are largely unobserved, mostly happening ‘behind lace curtains’. There is a danger for people in recovery that one addiction can replace another or lead a person back to their original addiction because activities are linked; gambling and drinking is one example of this. Am I aware of the dangers of cross addiction and the need to stop all addictive behaviour?

Addiction never gives up. Complacency leads to disaster. The alcoholic who thinks that an occasional joint won’t matter, or a gambler who sees no problem with a few drinks, are both playing with fire. I cannot fully embrace a new life of sobriety if I am still experiencing the escapism of even a small amount of addictive behaviour. Today I give thanks for my sobriety but remind myself of the dangers in any kind of addictive behaviour.

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Daily Reading from Recovery Days June 13th by Chris B

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Remember Mindfulness – close eyes briefly


Listening


If we really listen, we inform ourselves. Too often,
we rely on assumptions instead. The trouble with
that is that we then believe they are the truth. Soon
we have created a whole mountain of problems for
ourselves. If we had simply listened and asked
questions, we could have avoided most of the
problems. We make assumptions usually because
we are too afraid or too lazy to ask questions.
Choosing the softer, easier way can become a habit.
Am I willing to stop making assumptions and to ask
questions instead?


When I ask questions, I receive answers that
increase my understanding, and I may also help
others learn at the same time. That doesn’t happen
when I make assumptions instead. If my goal is
spiritual growth, then questions will help me to
achieve this a lot quicker than assumptions. Today,
I ask God for the wisdom to ask questions and not
make assumptions.


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